I always want to write more here; I have so many things to say. But honestly writing is really difficult for me. I’m keenly aware of how slippery words are & how easy it is for one’s meaning to be misconstrued thanks to constantly shifting tribal signaling filters. So I spend waaay to much time laboring over semantic minutiae.
I’m trying to overcome this, so I’m setting myself a challenge: for the rest of July I will post a new blog entry on every even numbered day. I hereby forgive myself in advance if my sentences are few and my thoughts aren’t expressed with perfect clarity. And to start the ball rolling here’s a little thought for today…
I love love love verbal humiliation. It’s an art, using words as tools of torture, and a very intimate one. The Dominant has to be able to read the sub’s mind, pinpoint the weaknesses that sting, or it just comes of as rather silly. I seriously get off on wielding this kind of power over a man.
But there is a plague among so-called submissives, of males whose modus operandi is to provoke dommes into dishing out verbal humiliation. They typically seem to be after something else but they go about it in such a blatantly idiotic way that anyone unaware of what was really going on might easily be provoked into responding with scorn & derision – which is exactly what these guys are REALLY getting their jollies from. So they get what they want, over and over, from a never-ending supply of fresh dommes without ever having to actually SERVE any woman.
I refuse to waste my time or energy fulfilling anyone’s fetish fantasy who’s done nothing to enrich my life. This is one big reason I don’t go around spouting abuse at men as a whole. You’ll find me courteous and businesslike until I have reason to let you feel the sharp edge of my tongue. But once I cut loose on you look out – I will shred your ego to ribbons with a smile on my face and a mocking laugh that will linger in your soul forever.
Want to feel the sharp edge of my tongue? The best way to “provoke” me is by humbly offering your soul…and your wallet!