Self-training for BDSM Slaves

Odds are you’re fantasized about what it would be like to be ‘owned’. Maybe you even hope to make that fantasy a reality one day. But what is there about you which might make a truly superior woman want to own you? What kinds of talents, skills & resources do you have that would make you […]

The meaning & importance of discipline in D/s

What is discipline? Is it the same thing as punishment? Is it the same thing as structure? And how do I, as a responsible dominant, create an effective system of discipline? Discipline and Leadership Much has been said about the importance of discipline. But what is discipline exactly? Is it the same thing as structure, […]

Sample Cock Control Contract

You see a lot written in forums and elsewhere about the “submissive journey”, and I’ve spoken here before about the fact that people’s boundaries do shift over time. Less attention is given to the fact that we dommes also grow and change and yes, even like to push our own boundaries. I’ve grown in a […]

Be My Promo Bitch

I’m always getting messages from men who ask to be my promotional or retweet slave. My answer to this is: PROMOTE ME then! You don’t need my permission (or my attention) to retweet,  reblog, like & share everything I post on my social  media accounts. However I guarantee that if you DO start boosting my […]

Help your Goddess WIN!

I’ve got a special announcement for you today – for the first time I’ve decided to participate in one of Clips4Sale’s contests! And I need your help to win. Contest rules are simple (and awesome!) – Clips4Sale is handing out cash bonuses to every producer who participates, based on the total dollar amount of clip […]

Understanding Your Submissive Self

Your first job as a sub is to UNDERSTAND YOURSELF. This is perhaps the #1 mistake submissives make when entering the world of kink. If you don’t understand yourself, your own needs & desires and what you bring to the table, then you will inevitably be disappointed. Not only that but you will inevitably disappoint […]

Irmageddon!

Sadly I’ve had to postpone my Miami trip due to Hurricane Irma.  🙁 Miami’s practically in my backyard though so I plan on becoming a very regular visitor there. Keep a watch for my rescheduled tour dates!   Canceling my trip is unfortunate but what’s worse is that the eye of the storm now appears […]

Sext with Me @ SextPanther

Today I’m delighted to announce that I’ve joined the SextPanther network! SextPanther is way cool; it allows you to text my phone directly, and me to answer you back, while maintaining total privacy & discretion – neither of our real phone numbers are shown. It makes it super easy for you to text with me […]

Barbara’s Birthday Spanking

I missed posting the other day due to a family crisis so I’ve decided to make today’s post extra special and tell you all about the events that happened on the day I gave my sissy party maid her 50th birthday spankings. Barbara was my regular party maid back when I used to host monthly tgirl […]

How to make Mistress say “Good Sissy!”

I love to wake up and see shit like this in my inbox. Somebody just can’t get enough of me. He went to one of my clipstores and bought a big pile of clips, then went and put in a second large order in another. And that’s a name I vaguely remember having seen before too; […]