Up to No Good ;)

Hoo boy, have I been a busy Goddess lately! I’ve recently launched some exciting new projects. I also have several events coming up where I’m looking forward to meeting with my fans, followers & fellow adult industry professionals. 2 Cons & a Class I’ll be at 2 upcoming conventions in the Tampa Bay area: the […]

A Slut Is Born

I’ve got something a little different to share with you today, a guest post of an explicitly slutty nature. Back in January of this year I accepted for training a new sissy slave. I’ve named this one marilyn in honor of Marilyn Chambers because they’ve always aspired to be a blonde bimbo slut like the […]

How to Worship My Feet

As you might have noticed by now, I love having my feet worshiped. For those of you who are interested in learning how to please me (I’m looking at you!) I decided to write this quick guide on some ways you might – if you’re worthy – be permitted to worship & pleasure my feet. […]

The Language of Kink

When it comes to language, meaning varies with context. And whether you’re trying to understand others or make yourself understood it’s important to understand that context. Nobody has yet, to my knowledge, written the official bdsm dictionary. But the meanings and connotations of some of the words we use are commonly agreed upon. Understanding this […]

How many fucks do I give?

When you come to me seeking a position as my submissive keep one thing in mind: I don’t give a fuck about your prowess in bed. Why? For one thing, as a Mistress & slave owner I’m not in this just for the orgasms. And for another thing, I already know you’d suck at providing […]

Where the porn gets made

I’ve been absent online for the past week or so because I’ve been super busy working on something big. Really big. Seriously, I cannot emphasize enough how big this is for me. I’ve been hard at work building myself a new femdom porn studio! My struggle & an executive decision For the past few years […]

Another View of Hard Limits

You’re probably familiar with the idea of hard limits as those lines you’re not willing to cross, activities you absolutely don’t want to do in a bdsm power exchange. But have you ever thought about hard limits including things you must have in your Mistress/slave relationship? Hard limits as must-haves Let’s face it, you wouldn’t […]

Online vs Offline Femdom

So far in most of my posts about bdsm slave training I’ve been talking about my slave training programs for in-the-flesh servants. But there are definite – and very important – distinctions to be made when we’re engaged in a D/s power exchange relationship online, via phone, etc. I wouldn’t say that an online Mistress/slave […]

BDSM Protocols 101

Protocols are part of the structure so necessary in a d/s relationship. They help each of us feel in our proper place. D/s protocols are also part of the fun! But what exactly is a protocol? Put simply, a protocol is a behavioral ritual, consciously designed & chosen to express or reinforce our respective roles […]

Useful Male Slavery

A couple weeks ago I talked about setting up a slave training program in a consensual D/s relationship. It’s important to me that anyone I’m spending MY time and energy on should be contributing at least as much to my life as I’m contributing to theirs. Preferably more, this is a Mistress-slave relationship we’re talking […]