The Language of Kink

When it comes to language, meaning varies with context. And whether you’re trying to understand others or make yourself understood it’s important to understand that context. Nobody has yet, to my knowledge, written the official bdsm dictionary. But the meanings and connotations of some of the words we use are commonly agreed upon. Understanding this […]

Silk Panty Domination

Ah, silky panties. One of the most commonly fetishized articles of feminine clothing. I’ve spoken here already about the power of silky panties in melting the mind of a submissive male when HE wears them. Today I’d like to talk about the power of silk & satin knickers when I wear them. I love panty domination […]

Thoughts for the Day – Verbal Humiliation

I always want to  write more here; I have so many things to say. But honestly writing is really difficult for me. I’m keenly aware of how slippery words are & how easy it is for one’s meaning to be misconstrued thanks to constantly shifting tribal signaling filters. So I spend waaay to much time […]

Black Lives Matter: Black Men’s Sex Lives Matter

I normally try very hard to stay out of this kind of internet shitstorm. I’m not here to proselytize to anybody; I’m here to sell some porn. But I foolishly opened my damn mouth on this one and became the object of a social justice witchhunt. Thus I feel the need to make some kind […]