How I got into silk

I’ve been in love with silk for as long as I can remember. I can recall being a young girl, going to the shopping mall and thrusting my bare arms into the racks of silk blouses just so I could revel in the delicious feeling. Silk has a very distinctive feel against the skin. It’s […]

Another View of Hard Limits

You’re probably familiar with the idea of hard limits as those lines you’re not willing to cross, activities you absolutely don’t want to do in a bdsm power exchange. But have you ever thought about hard limits including things you must have in your Mistress/slave relationship? Hard limits as must-haves Let’s face it, you wouldn’t […]

Silk fetish scarf care & storage

Compared to latex, leather, or even rope silk scarves are very easy care fetish gear. They do need to be washed often; when used in bdsm play silk fetish scarves tend to be worn in places (and used in ways) that get them quite dirty. And for goodness sake if you have pretty silk scarves […]

A tribute to flip-flops

Those who get hot for high heels may have a hard time understanding the fetish for flip-flops. But if you take a closer look I think it’s easy to see why flip flop fans find them so exciting. Flip flops have some unique qualities that definitely inspire foot-sluts to drool. Flip flops – official Florida […]

Playing Dress-up, Fetish Style

The power & pleasure of fetishwear Fetishwear includes so much more than the obvious leather & latex. Corsets, shoes, bikinis, blue jeans, gas masks and medical uniforms; all these and more have inspired legions of fetish fashion fans. Really any clothing that people can have a fetish for has the potential for becoming “fetishwear”. Which […]

12 steps to the perfect pedicure

Giving a decent pedicure is a very useful skill for a slave to have. I know I love it when a footslave can do a good job tending to my fine bbw feet! And learning how to give one is a great thing you can do to train yourself to be a better slave. You […]

Beyond Silk: Satin & Stockings & Furs, Oh My

When it comes to fetish fashion my main love is silk. But I’m really a textileophile, which simply means that I get enormous sensual pleasure from all kinds of fabrics. This fetish for fabrics, and especially luxury fabrics, plays into my style as a femme dom (the silk domme!) a lot. Fetish Fabrics, Fetish Fashion […]

Decorating My BBW Feet

Just like I’d wear makeup to enhance my face or lingerie to show off my ass I’ll do special things to put my lovely bbw feet on display. It makes me feel spoiled & pampered to have prettily decorated feet.  Plus it draws the eye of any foot fetishist I might meet, which is an […]

Sample Cock Control Contract

You see a lot written in forums and elsewhere about the “submissive journey”, and I’ve spoken here before about the fact that people’s boundaries do shift over time. Less attention is given to the fact that we dommes also grow and change and yes, even like to push our own boundaries. I’ve grown in a […]

Putting him in his place with silky panties

Silk scarf & sari bondage is wonderful, but there’s more to silk fetish than tying people up in silk. Another very common item for silk lovers to fixate on is silk panties. As a silk domme I have a deep appreciation for the allure of pretty, silky panties. The erotic power of silky panties Panties […]