Useful Male Slavery

A couple weeks ago I talked about setting up a slave training program in a consensual D/s relationship. It’s important to me that anyone I’m spending MY time and energy on should be contributing at least as much to my life as I’m contributing to theirs. Preferably more, this is a Mistress-slave relationship we’re talking […]

12 steps to the perfect pedicure

Giving a decent pedicure is a very useful skill for a slave to have. I know I love it when a footslave can do a good job tending to my fine bbw feet! And learning how to give one is a great thing you can do to train yourself to be a better slave. You […]

Self-training for BDSM Slaves

Odds are you’re fantasized about what it would be like to be ‘owned’. Maybe you even hope to make that fantasy a reality one day. But what is there about you which might make a truly superior woman want to own you? What kinds of talents, skills & resources do you have that would make you […]

Discipline in a Femdom lifestyle

What is discipline? Is it the same thing as punishment? Is it the same thing as structure? And how do I, as a responsible dominant, create an effective system of discipline? Discipline and Leadership Much has been said about the importance of discipline. But what is discipline exactly? Is it the same thing as structure, […]

Your first slave training session with Me

Let the slave training begin Just like every slave is different, so each bdsm slave training session is different. But here’s an idea of what you might expect in a typical first session with me. When you arrive I will greet you warmly. I’ll check in to make sure you don’t need to pee or […]

Basics of BDSM Slave Contracts

What is a slave contract? Simply put, a bdsm slave contract is a negotiated agreement detailing the boundaries and expectations of each party. Whenever you embark on a Mistress/slave relationship with me you’ll have an agreement like this. And because I like to keep things clear and consistent this agreement will probably exist in some written form […]

Femdom Choose Your Own Adventure Stories

Many of us remember the ‘Choose Your Own Adventure’ books from our childhood. Now, for perhaps the first time ever, I have created Femdom choose your own adventure stories! They work just like the books you remember: every choice you make will take you down a different path, and each path comes with its own […]

Help your Goddess WIN!

I’ve got a special announcement for you today – for the first time I’ve decided to participate in one of Clips4Sale’s contests! And I need your help to win. Contest rules are simple (and awesome!) – Clips4Sale is handing out cash bonuses to every producer who participates, based on the total dollar amount of clip […]

Understanding Your Submissive Self

Your first job as a sub is to UNDERSTAND YOURSELF. This is perhaps the #1 mistake submissives make when entering the world of kink. If you don’t understand yourself, your own needs & desires and what you bring to the table, then you will inevitably be disappointed. Not only that but you will inevitably disappoint […]

Evil Opal Does Miami!

After my recent Dubai adventure I’ve been bit by the travel bug; I don’t want to stop wandering! And since Miami is so close to my hometown in St Pete I expect to become a frequent visitor. 😀 Assuming Hurricane Irma doesn’t interfere I’ll be in town & available for sissy shopping excursions, publicly humiliating […]