How many fucks do I give?

When you come to me seeking a position as my submissive keep one thing in mind: I don’t give a fuck about your prowess in bed. Why? For one thing, as a Mistress & slave owner I’m not in this just for the orgasms. And for another thing, I already know you’d suck at providing […]

Silk Panty Domination

Ah, silky panties. One of the most commonly fetishized articles of feminine clothing. I’ve spoken here already about the power of silky panties in melting the mind of a submissive male when HE wears them. Today I’d like to talk about the power of silk & satin knickers when I wear them. I love panty domination […]

Where the porn gets made

I’ve been absent online for the past week or so because I’ve been super busy working on something big. Really big. Seriously, I cannot emphasize enough how big this is for me. I’ve been hard at work building myself a new femdom porn studio! My struggle & an executive decision For the past few years […]

How I got into silk

I’ve been in love with silk for as long as I can remember. I can recall being a young girl, going to the shopping mall and thrusting my bare arms into the racks of silk blouses just so I could revel in the delicious feeling. Silk has a very distinctive feel against the skin. It’s […]

Online vs Offline Femdom

So far in most of my posts about bdsm slave training I’ve been talking about my slave training programs for in-the-flesh servants. But there are definite – and very important – distinctions to be made when we’re engaged in a D/s power exchange relationship online, via phone, etc. I wouldn’t say that an online Mistress/slave […]

A tribute to flip-flops

Those who get hot for high heels may have a hard time understanding the fetish for flip-flops. But if you take a closer look I think it’s easy to see why flip flop fans find them so exciting. Flip flops have some unique qualities that definitely inspire foot-sluts to drool. Flip flops – official Florida […]

Playing Dress-up, Fetish Style

The power & pleasure of fetishwear Fetishwear includes so much more than the obvious leather & latex. Corsets, shoes, bikinis, blue jeans, gas masks and medical uniforms; all these and more have inspired legions of fetish fashion fans. Really any clothing that people can have a fetish for has the potential for becoming “fetishwear”. Which […]

Discipline in a Femdom lifestyle

What is discipline? Is it the same thing as punishment? Is it the same thing as structure? And how do I, as a responsible dominant, create an effective system of discipline? Discipline and Leadership Much has been said about the importance of discipline. But what is discipline exactly? Is it the same thing as structure, […]

Beyond Silk: Satin & Stockings & Furs, Oh My

When it comes to fetish fashion my main love is silk. But I’m really a textileophile, which simply means that I get enormous sensual pleasure from all kinds of fabrics. This fetish for fabrics, and especially luxury fabrics, plays into my style as a femme dom (the silk domme!) a lot. Fetish Fabrics, Fetish Fashion […]

Sample Cock Control Contract

You see a lot written in forums and elsewhere about the “submissive journey”, and I’ve spoken here before about the fact that people’s boundaries do shift over time. Less attention is given to the fact that we dommes also grow and change and yes, even like to push our own boundaries. I’ve grown in a […]