I’ve been in love with silk for as long as I can remember. I can recall being a young girl, going to the shopping mall and thrusting my bare arms into the racks of silk blouses just so I could revel in the delicious feeling. Silk has a very distinctive feel against the skin. It’s warm yet cool, slippery but with just a hint of friction or drag on the skin that makes it cling so seductively. Silk is really the perfect fabric for lingerie. And naturally my budding kinky interests included a fascination with lingerie. Then as a young woman I found a man who loved seeing me in pretty underthings and was happy to buy them for me. I was hooked. Hooked on the feeling of the silky lingerie itself as well as on the feelings of pampering and power of having him gifting the lingerie to me. My silk fetish had truly taken hold.
Silk fetish evolution
My silk fetish continued evolving after that. As a perpetually horny young milf I tried selling my panties for extra spending money. I discovered I had a strong exhibitionistic streak; I loved making videos and taking pictures! It gave me an opportunity to apply my creativity using some of the things I loved, including fashion and costume.
Shortly after I started selling my panties I met my first sissy. Which opened my eyes to a whole world of kinky possibilities in the bdsm scene. I had nothing against the macho black-leather-and-chains aesthetic of ‘traditional’ bdsm fetishwear. It just wasn’t my style. But it wasn’t until I met that first fairyboy that I realized I could use my love for silk so much as a dominatrix. And I guess that’s when I really became The Silk Domme.
The Original Silk Domme
Way back when I realized I wanted to be a dominatrix I set myself to learning core bdsm skills. Even if it’s not entirely my ‘thing’ I thought it would be handy to have, for instance, a basic familiarity with rope bondage. It was during this early learning period that I attended FetishCon for the first time and took Bond Dave’s class in silk scarf & sari bondage.
I like to think I’ve evolved a lot since then. I’ve learned how to integrate my silk fetish into every aspect of my kinky play. I even discovered that I love getting wet in silk, lol! Nowadays I continue adding to my collection of lovely silks, and using them as The Silk Domme to give my submissives a truly unique bdsm experience.
Do you have a fetish for silk? Have you ever thought about trying silk bondage? Tell me all about it!