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Your first slave training session with Me

Let the slave training begin

Just like every slave is different, so each bdsm slave training session is different. But here’s an idea of what you might expect in a typical first session with me. When you arrive I will greet you warmly. I’ll check in to make sure you don’t need to pee or have a drink before we start. This is when you’ll give me your offering of tribute, placed at my feet with a kiss. If you’re there first you may leave your gift on a table or counter.

I might also require you to be naked when I arrive. If you’re not naked already I’ll order you to strip so that I can inspect you. You can expect to be poked and prodded and evaluated like a piece of meat. When I’m done looking you over I will command you to kneel so I can put my collar on you. While this temporary training collar is around your neck you will be my slave, required to follow my every command. At the end of our session I’ll take it off and give you the an opportunity to process the experience as a free person once again.

 

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Getting you ready

After this collaring you’ll get “dressed” for me. This could mean being put in some kind of bondage, like leather shackles or my favorite silks. It could mean wearing a butt plug or a chastity cage. It could even mean having your makeup done & dressing up in something girly if you’re a sissy slave.

Once you’re dressed & ready the real fun begins. We will have already discussed your limits and wishes, and I’ll have a general idea of what kind of slave training I’d like to do with you. But the flavor of our interactions once we’ve actually started will inspire me to veer off on erotic tangents, to start teasing and using you in a way that’s different every time.

As part of my preparations for every session I make a list of things I want to do; this is as close to a script as I get. My list is created based on what you’ve told me of your desires. However I use my judgement and my experience to decide what will fit in the time we have and also what will flow together to create a sublimely satisfying experience.

 

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Good kinky fun

If this is your first ever session with a professional dominatrix I’ll frequently start out by drilling you in some basic slave training protocols. For instance I might instruct you in some basic slave positions. Making you assume them rapidly on command –  like a kinky version of ‘Simon says’ – can be a fun game.

It’s quite likely that you will want to have a {ahem} happy ending to our time together. You are allowed to beg me for this privilege; I may or may not grant it. If I do decide to allow you some release it will involve you jerking yourself off, squirting on the location of my command, & licking it up. Why? Because I’m not about to exert myself to get you off; you will do it for my entertainment or not at all. I’ve also found that making you eat your own cum pushes you right back toward submissive headspace after your orgasm. This can be very beneficial in combating the phenomenon of the submissive losing his urge to obey after he cums. Perhaps not as powerful as being locked in chastity but still effective. And of course it reinforces your inferior position using my signature ‘silk domme’ method of manipulation by erotic, sensual tease.

 

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Aftercare

Once I’m done playing with you I will take your collar off; this releases you until the next time. If you’ve requested it (or if I judge you to need it) we may spend a few minutes snuggling together. I’ll also tend to any medical needs you may have, such as cleaning minor welts or making sure your blood sugar is ok, and if necessary I’ll instruct you in how to take your makeup off. Then we’ll sit down together & I will ask you a few questions about your experience.

This post-session assessment is intended to help you process the experience and also to help me get to know you better. As I learn what makes you tick I will be able to dominate you more fully, leading to a better and better experience for both of us each time we meet.

I also like to send you an email a day or two after our meeting to ask you the same questions again. (With maybe a few additions.) Many submissives, especially newbies, can find it overwhelming to experience the things they’ve only ever fantasized about. For instance you might have very ambiguous feelings about having your ass whipped while it’s still painfully smarting. But you may find the memory to be extremely erotic later.

What happens next? That depends – if you’re contented with no contact you can just reach out next time you want to see me. However if you aspire to become my owned slave you should start contributing regularly to my life, buying videos and photo sets, booking other sessions, etc. As you become a servant that I can count on you will earn more and more of my attention.

Are you ready to book a session with me? Fill out my booking form here to request an appointment.

 

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