Self-training for BDSM Slaves

Odds are you’re fantasized about what it would be like to be ‘owned’. Maybe you even hope to make that fantasy a reality one day. But what is there about you which might make a truly superior woman want to own you? What kinds of talents, skills & resources do you have that would make you […]

Discipline in a Femdom lifestyle

What is discipline? Is it the same thing as punishment? Is it the same thing as structure? And how do I, as a responsible dominant, create an effective system of discipline? Discipline and Leadership Much has been said about the importance of discipline. But what is discipline exactly? Is it the same thing as structure, […]

Sample Cock Control Contract

You see a lot written in forums and elsewhere about the “submissive journey”, and I’ve spoken here before about the fact that people’s boundaries do shift over time. Less attention is given to the fact that we dommes also grow and change and yes, even like to push our own boundaries. I’ve grown in a […]

Defining Your Boundaries

When you embark on a program of slave training with me I’ll ask you what your hard limits are. You’re probably familiar with the concept; your “hard limits” are those activities and areas of kink that you just don’t want to explore. Having hard limits is perfectly ok. Even dominants have hard limits. And while […]

Silk Scarf Fetish Play

Silk scarves are great for fetish play What makes silk scarves so superb to use for bdsm & fetish play? For one thing, they add such an incredible element of sensuality to a scene. The very word sensuality suggests using the senses and adding a silk scarf enhances every sensory aspect of kinky play. Being […]

Your first slave training session with Me

Let the slave training begin Just like every slave is different, so each bdsm slave training session is different. But here’s an idea of what you might expect in a typical first session with me. When you arrive I will greet you warmly. I’ll check in to make sure you don’t need to pee or […]

Be My Video Slave

Have you ever wanted to be in porn? To play the submissive in one of my femdom fetish videos your age*, weight, gender etc does not matter but you must be respectful and reliable. I want video slaves who are enthusiastic & vocal in their responses and who are eager to try new things and […]

South Florida Femdom Tour

HOORAY! After months of delay, FINALLY I’m ready to hit the road again. 🙂 I’ll be heading south to Naples, Florida on April 9th & 10th, then over to Miami on the 11th & 12th. I’m very likely going to schedule stops in Tampa/St Pete and Orlando too. And who knows? I might even spend […]

Sensation Play with Silk & Satin

You’re probably familiar with the archetypal image of the leather Domme. I do love dressing up in leather sometimes, and I’m definitely a sadist, but I call myself instead a SILK DOMME. What is a silk domme? It’s a Lady whose aesthetic is more attuned to the sumptuous luxury of the upper crust than the […]