A Slut Is Born

I’ve got something a little different to share with you today, a guest post of an explicitly slutty nature. Back in January of this year I accepted for training a new sissy slave. I’ve named this one marilyn in honor of Marilyn Chambers because they’ve always aspired to be a blonde bimbo slut like the […]

How to Worship My Feet

As you might have noticed by now, I love having my feet worshiped. For those of you who are interested in learning how to please me (I’m looking at you!) I decided to write this quick guide on some ways you might – if you’re worthy – be permitted to worship & pleasure my feet. […]

Evil Opal in New York City

A very sweet submissive fan of mine has given me the most fabulous birthday gift this year – he’s sponsoring a trip to New York City! I love, love, LOVE being a jet-setting Mistress. I’ll be staying in a delightfully luxurious hotel in Manhattan and sampling as many of the pleasures of the Big Apple […]

Silk Panty Domination

Ah, silky panties. One of the most commonly fetishized articles of feminine clothing. I’ve spoken here already about the power of silky panties in melting the mind of a submissive male when HE wears them. Today I’d like to talk about the power of silk & satin knickers when I wear them. I love panty domination […]

Another View of Hard Limits

You’re probably familiar with the idea of hard limits as those lines you’re not willing to cross, activities you absolutely don’t want to do in a bdsm power exchange. But have you ever thought about hard limits including things you must have in your Mistress/slave relationship? Hard limits as must-haves Let’s face it, you wouldn’t […]

Online vs Offline Femdom

So far in most of my posts about bdsm slave training I’ve been talking about my slave training programs for in-the-flesh servants. But there are definite – and very important – distinctions to be made when we’re engaged in a D/s power exchange relationship online, via phone, etc. I wouldn’t say that an online Mistress/slave […]

Silk fetish scarf care & storage

Compared to latex, leather, or even rope silk scarves are very easy care fetish gear. They do need to be washed often; when used in bdsm play silk fetish scarves tend to be worn in places (and used in ways) that get them quite dirty. And for goodness sake if you have pretty silk scarves […]

BDSM Protocols 101

Protocols are part of the structure so necessary in a d/s relationship. They help each of us feel in our proper place. D/s protocols are also part of the fun! But what exactly is a protocol? Put simply, a protocol is a behavioral ritual, consciously designed & chosen to express or reinforce our respective roles […]

Useful Male Slavery

A couple weeks ago I talked about setting up a slave training program in a consensual D/s relationship. It’s important to me that anyone I’m spending MY time and energy on should be contributing at least as much to my life as I’m contributing to theirs. Preferably more, this is a Mistress-slave relationship we’re talking […]