Silk & Satin Sensations

Remember a few weeks ago when I appeared on the ‘In Bed with Dr. Sue’ show to talk about my fetish for silk, fur & other luxury fabrics? Well if you wanted to listen again or (heaven forbid!) missed it the first time around you can find it here:   Are YOU a fan of […]

Be My Promo Bitch

I’m always getting messages from men who ask to be my promotional or retweet slave. My answer to this is: PROMOTE ME then! You don’t need my permission (or my attention) to retweet,  reblog, like & share everything I post on my social  media accounts. However I guarantee that if you DO start boosting my […]

Sensation Play with Silk & Satin

You’re probably familiar with the archetypal image of the leather Domme. I do love dressing up in leather sometimes, and I’m definitely a sadist, but I call myself instead a SILK DOMME. What is a silk domme? It’s a Lady whose aesthetic is more attuned to the sumptuous luxury of the upper crust than the […]

Understanding Your Submissive Self

Your first job as a sub is to UNDERSTAND YOURSELF. This is perhaps the #1 mistake submissives make when entering the world of kink. If you don’t understand yourself, your own needs & desires and what you bring to the table, then you will inevitably be disappointed. Not only that but you will inevitably disappoint […]

Thoughts for the Day – Verbal Humiliation

I always want to  write more here; I have so many things to say. But honestly writing is really difficult for me. I’m keenly aware of how slippery words are & how easy it is for one’s meaning to be misconstrued thanks to constantly shifting tribal signaling filters. So I spend waaay to much time […]

Things I’d Like to See

I have a LOT of ideas for things I’d like to see. Things ranging from silly toy and game ideas to ideas for how to save the planet. So many that I could probably fill an entire other blog with them. But goddess knows I don’t have time in my life to build & tend […]

Best BBW Femdom Porn

Once again I am in the top five of the Clips4Sale ranking of the top 50 studios in the BBW Female Domination category. Even though I’ve barely posted anything in the past two months. (I’m working on that consistency thing guys, I swear. One of my personal challenges.) Because yeah, I am that addictive. And my clips […]

Packages Packages Packages

I’m clearing out my cellphone gallery & trying to keep my new year’s resolution, so here’s a random collection of pics of packages I’ve received. I don’t always forget to take pics but I rarely have time to post them. I’m too fussy about doing things like adding a logo/watermark. (Bear in mind my disability […]

Sad News & New Leaves in 2017

I don’t write here nearly as often as I want to. Mostly, I think, because I feel like every piece of writing I put out there has to be extra super double plus plus well thought out,  perfectly composed to withstand the fiercest criticisms of the internet thought police. This is, of course, an impossible […]