How to Worship My Feet

As you might have noticed by now, I love having my feet worshiped. For those of you who are interested in learning how to please me (I’m looking at you!) I decided to write this quick guide on some ways you might – if you’re worthy – be permitted to worship & pleasure my feet. […]

The Language of Kink

When it comes to language, meaning varies with context. And whether you’re trying to understand others or make yourself understood it’s important to understand that context. Nobody has yet, to my knowledge, written the official bdsm dictionary. But the meanings and connotations of some of the words we use are commonly agreed upon. Understanding this […]

The Fabric of My Sexuality

Note from Goddess Opal – this is my first ever guest post on this blog, and I’m very happy to welcome my fellow silk fetishist Andy Warren (@SilkenAssassin on Twitter) to describe his evolution into a textile-o-phile with a preference for silk! And kleenex tissues, but that’s a story for another time…   ;D A silk […]

How many fucks do I give?

When you come to me seeking a position as my submissive keep one thing in mind: I don’t give a fuck about your prowess in bed. Why? For one thing, as a Mistress & slave owner I’m not in this just for the orgasms. And for another thing, I already know you’d suck at providing […]

Silk Panty Domination

Ah, silky panties. One of the most commonly fetishized articles of feminine clothing. I’ve spoken here already about the power of silky panties in melting the mind of a submissive male when HE wears them. Today I’d like to talk about the power of silk & satin knickers when I wear them. I love panty domination […]

How I got into silk

I’ve been in love with silk for as long as I can remember. I can recall being a young girl, going to the shopping mall and thrusting my bare arms into the racks of silk blouses just so I could revel in the delicious feeling. Silk has a very distinctive feel against the skin. It’s […]

Another View of Hard Limits

You’re probably familiar with the idea of hard limits as those lines you’re not willing to cross, activities you absolutely don’t want to do in a bdsm power exchange. But have you ever thought about hard limits including things you must have in your Mistress/slave relationship? Hard limits as must-haves Let’s face it, you wouldn’t […]

Online vs Offline Femdom

So far in most of my posts about bdsm slave training I’ve been talking about my slave training programs for in-the-flesh servants. But there are definite – and very important – distinctions to be made when we’re engaged in a D/s power exchange relationship online, via phone, etc. I wouldn’t say that an online Mistress/slave […]

Silk fetish scarf care & storage

Compared to latex, leather, or even rope silk scarves are very easy care fetish gear. They do need to be washed often; when used in bdsm play silk fetish scarves tend to be worn in places (and used in ways) that get them quite dirty. And for goodness sake if you have pretty silk scarves […]